الأحد، 15 سبتمبر 2024

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A toxic gas spread in the city, causing a large number of deaths

 

First of all, I would like to say this to everyone who feels like a failure and has not achieved what they aspire to.

 

You are no worse than the hero of our movie, who brings bad luck wherever he goes.

 

To know what I mean, I will give you a brief overview of his life.

Imagine that on the day he prepared to confess his feelings to the love of his life, a toxic gas is spreading in the city!

 

If he cannot escape from the city with his beloved, they will die together instead of living happily ever after!

 

Come with us to follow the details of the story

 

 

The main character in the movie is named Yong-nam

Yong-nam was training to defend the weak.

 

And because he is a nobody, his nephew despises him and refuses to acknowledge that he is his uncle.

 

But the topic doesn't bother him because he has a lot of things to worry about.

For example, he is rejected by the international company he applied to work for.

Yong-nam feels shocked, and goes to meet one of his friends who shares his bad luck.

But he tells him that he too was rejected, so he leaves him and returns home.

At home, his father and mother argue over watching TV.

Yong-nam goes to his room.

But his sister enters the room and tells him that his mother wants to check on him and see him successful in his life.

We know from their conversation that they are planning to celebrate his mother’s seventieth birthday in a large celebration hall.

 

After his sister leaves the room, Yong-nam goes back to the past with his memory when he was successful and happy.

 

He practiced climbing and was very successful at it.

 

I wonder what happened to him to reach his current state?

We will get to know shortly.

 

The next day, Yong-nam had to go to his mother's birthday party, and he felt upset because he did not want to be in a family gathering.

Especially with his aunt and her husband, who will inevitably ask him about his life and what he has achieved.

 

The celebration begins and everyone praises the birthday girl.

Yong-nam finds out that his girl works in the same hall.

 

Of course, at this moment, he feels that luck has smiled on him.

While an emotional and expressive song plays in the background, Yong-nam starts talking to his girl, Eui-ju, and convinces her that he is a successful person and works in a big company.

 

Eui-ju expresses her happiness at meeting him, and then we knew that he suffers from severe frustration that lasted for four years after he confessed his love to her, so she preferred that they be just friends.

 

He assures her that he was not hurt after she rejected him, because he is strong and can handle rejection.

 

Yong-nam enters the celebration hall and continues the celebration with his family.

The hall manager, who is hereditarily wealthy, is seen talking nervously with the hall workers.

 

But he seems to have a special admiration for Eui-ju, so he speaks kindly to her, while she can't stand seeing him.

 

Yong-nam sees them talking and thinks they have a love relationship.

 

After a while, a man appears with a gas truck and distributes gas in the city in the most crowded areas.

 

A state of suffocation and pandemonium begins in the city.

 

At the same time, Yong-nam's mother collects leftover food from the hall and makes him feel extremely embarrassed about it.

 

After they leave the hall, they are surprised by the state of madness spreading throughout the city.

Yong-nam quickly takes them inside to escape the toxic gas.

 

He finds his nephew calling for help, trying to find his mother.

 

He forgets his treatment of him and searches for his sister, only to find that she has been exposed to poisonous gas inhalation.

 

He carries her inside to wait for the ambulance to arrive.

Yong-nam asks everyone to climb to the roof to escape the effects of the poison gas, and he builds a stretcher to carry his injured sister.

 

But because he's a failure, no one wants to listen to him.

until they received warnings from the government to climb on any roof to escape the deadly gas.

 

But unfortunately the roof was locked, and to open it, Yong-nam went downstairs and risked his life to get the key.

 

There he saw officials from the ministry of health talking about the dangers of poison gas.

 

They also said, that the gas masks in buildings can protect against gas for an estimated ten minutes.

 

 

But the hall manager collects all the gas masks and keeps it for himself, so no one finds it.

 

Yong-nam insisted that he would save his family by any means possible, so he regained his climbing talents to climb to the roof, and even when the safety rope ran out, he continued climbing without the rope.

Despite the seriousness of the situation, he insisted on reaching the roof and opening the door for his family.

 

The biggest motivation for him was that he had to finish what he started and not withdraw as he did every time before reaching the goal.

 

When he reaches the roof and opens the door for his family, they all blame him for almost sacrificing his life for them.

 

Here a helicopter passes by to rescue the survivors.

 

He and his family are trying to attract the pilot's attention.

 

They know that the reason behind all of this is a scientist working in a scientific innovations company after his dispute with the company’s management and his quest for revenge on all people.

 

 

They continue trying to get the pilot's attention, but to no avail, so Eui-ju goes down to the control panel and uses the light to get the pilot's attention.

 

Finally, he turns to them and goes down to rescue them.

But because the number is large, the pilot is forced to leave Yong-nam and Eui-ju on the roof.

 

After they thought they would die together, they noticed another helicopter coming towards them.

 

Yong-nam confesses to her that he is neither successful nor works in a big company, and that if he survives, he will actually do this.

 

But unfortunately, the helicopter went to rescue other people.

So, Yong-nam and Eui-ju decide to save themselves.

 

They collected everything that could help them survive.

 

At the same time, Yong-nam's family arrives at a safe place and becomes worried about him.

 

They are waiting for him to arrive with a helicopter that will rescue and transport people, but to no avail.

 

Yong-nam and Eui-ju hope to reach a rooftop before they run out of time to protect themselves with gas masks.

 

Yong-nam seizes the opportunity, takes the last gas mask and flees the place.

 

While Eui-ju feels that he betrayed her and left her to die alone.

 

However, he was actually looking for more masks.

 

When Eui-ju found herself alone, she decided to climb to the highest point in the building.

 

Yong-nam follows her and assures her that he can never leave her.

At the same time, his father feels bad and takes his brother and they go looking for him.

 

Yong-nam and Eui-ju arrive at the gym building, and decide to run to the building opposite using weights.

 

But after Eui-ju passes, gas fills the chimney and Yong-nam is forced to wear a mask and use huge weights to get through before the gas reaches him or Eui-ju.

 

As for the father and brother, they find themselves with a group of press reporters who are reporting the huge event.

 

The Ministry of Health finally found a solution to the gas problem, which is to use quantities of water to get rid of its toxic effects.

 

Yong-nam and Eui-ju reach the top of a high tower and wait for a helicopter to take them to a safe place.

 

After a helicopter heads towards them, it finds a large group of people in need of rescue.

 

Although Yong-nam and Eui-ju want to live, they would rather save others than save themselves.

 

 

Yong-nam's father agrees with journalists to search for him in exchange for money, even though he does not know whether his son is alive or dead.

Yong-nam and Eui-ju manage to reach the top of the highest tower in the city.

 

The journalists' drone reaches them and his father reassures him.

Pictures of him and Eui-ju taken by drone are broadcast on the Internet.

They become famous and social media activists demand their rescue.

 

 

As time passes and the helicopter is unable to reach them, they lose hope of survival.

 

What makes the situation worse is that the drone stops working, and images stop broadcasting on the Internet.

 

Everyone is afraid of losing them.

Suddenly, the broadcast returns after another group of drones arrives.

 

Then they have a crazy idea, which is to use the drone to survive.

But the attempt fails, and finally a helicopter pilot finds them and transports them safely to a safe haven.

 

 

Everyone is happy about their arrival, and the manager of the hall where Eui-ju works tries to congratulate her on her survival, but she meets him with a punch.

 

As for Yong-nam, she promised him another meeting.

 

Finally, luck smiles on Yong-nam, and this could happen to you at any time, despite the difficult time you are living now.

Don't despair.

 

 

 

 

 

الثلاثاء، 10 سبتمبر 2024

مآساة الزواج من نرجسي narcissistic husband

 


إذا كنتِ مقدمة على الزواج من شخص نرجسي فاعلمي أنك ستخوضين تجربة لا رابح فيها.

فالنرجسي يعاني من خلل عقلي لن يعترف به أبدًا، فلا أمل يرجى في شفاءه.

إنه يعيش حالة من الإعجاب الشديد بالنفس ويغار بشدة من أي شخص ناجح أو محبوب ويحسد الناس على ما آتاهم الله من فضله.

وفوق كل ذلك يعتقد أنه هو المحسود وهو الغير مُقدَّر بالدرجة الكافية، فيكفي وجوده في حياتك لتكون ممتنًا بقية عمرك لهذا الوجود.

وحتى ولو لم يقدم لك أي شيء غير التحكمات الفارغة والحديث المتواصل عن عبقريته وروعته، وعدم قدرة الأخرين على الوصول إليه في علياءه.

وعلى الرغم مما يبدو عليه من آمارات الغرور والتعالي، إلا أنه خاويًا من داخله وهشًّا، ويفتقر لكل معاني الثقة بالنفس

النرجسي تنعدم لديه المشاعر والعواطف

إن أول ما سيلمسه الإنسان الذي يقترب بدرحة كبيرة من الشخص النرجسي، هو انعدام العاطفة لديه، فهو لن يشعر بكِ على أي حال ولن يقدم لكِ أي دعم أو مساندة.

وهو لا يهتم بأطفاله، ولا يكن لهم أي مشاعر، وكل ما سينالهم منه التحكمات الغير عقلانية، ومحاولات فرض السيطرة والاستغلال.

اقرأ أيضًا: الشخصية المتلاعبة

النرجسي لا يعتذر أبدًا

النرجسي لا يعترف أبدًا بأخطائه مهما كانت الأوضاع، فهو سيعيد صياغة الرواية عشرات المرات في كل مرة يوجد بها ثغرة تبين كذبه أو خطأه.

ولذلك إذا تزوجتي من نرجسي فلا تتوقعي منه الاعتذار أو الاعتراف بالخطأ بل أنه سيلقي اللوم عليكِ في أمور ليس لها وجود وليس لها معنى على الإطلاق.

النرجسي لا يهمه سوى إرضاء رغباته الذاتية

عند زواجك من نرجسي فستتحملي العبئ الأكبر في الإنفاق ورعاية الأبناء والأعمال المنزلية.

فهو لا يريد سوى راحته وتوفير نقوده، ولن يسعى لمساعدتك بأي شكل من الأشكال.

وإذا حدث وقدم لكِ أقل القليل من مسؤوليات الزوج الطبيعية، فهو سينتظر منك دفع مقابل باهظ كرد لهذا الجميل.

وعلى سبيل المثال، إذا كان يقلكِ لعملك أو يقل الأطفال إلى مدارسهم، فهو يتوقع منكِ أن تدفعي مقابل ذلك.

على الرغم من أن ذلك من مسؤولياته كزوج وأب، وستجدي أنه من الأفضل لكِ أن تنفصلي عنه وتؤجري سائقًا.

طالما أنه حتى العمل الوحيد البسيط الذي يقدمه يريد عليه مقابل!

فهو لا يشعر أنه مسؤول عن أي شئ ولا بأنه في حاجة لتقديم أي شيء لأسرته، لأن وجوده من وجهة نظره هو كافٍ جدًا!!

اقرأ أيضًا: حيل الشخصية النرجسية للهروب من المسؤولية

الاستغلال أحد صفات النرجسي البائسة

سيسعى النرجسي لاستغلالك واستنفاد ما لديك من مال ووقت وجهد وهو لن يعتبر أبدًا ما تقدميه كافيًا.

مهما كان حجم ما تقدمينه له، وللمنزل والأبناء، فهو سيبتزك حتى بأبنائك لتقديم المزيد.

وهو لا يشعر بالأمان أو الراحة، ويسعى دائمًا لإثبات وجوده من خلال إثارة المشاكر وتعكير الأجواء في المنزل.

النرجسي سيصنع منكِ كبش فداء

يميل النرجسي لإلقاء اللوم عليه، فأنت السبب في تأخير ترقيته لأنه وافق على السفر معك للعمل في الخارج عندما واتتك الفرصة.

على الرغم من أنه كان يعاني من الكثير من المشكلات في عمله، وهو يحارب زملائه ويرفع القضايا عليهم جميعًا.

ويقتنص الفرص ويتصيد الأخطاء ويرفعها للرؤساء بل للنيابة الإدارية والجهاز المركزي .. ألخ!

وإذا كانت علاقته بأبناءه فاشلة بسبب تصرفاته التي لا تحتمل، فأنتِ أيضًا السبب لأنه من واجبك أن تقربي بينهم حتى ولو كان استنفد لديك أخر ما لديك من قدرة على الاحتمال والصبر.

وحتى ولو لم يعد يمثل لكِ شئ أكثر من مجرد شئ مقيت لا يمكن الحياة معه فانفصلتِ عنه منذ أكثر من عشرة سنوات!!

حب التملكك أحد مواصفات النرجسي

من صفات النرجسي التي ستظهر في بداية علاقتك به، حب التملك.

فهو لا يريد منكِ أن تعرفي أسرتك أو أصدقائك، أو يكون لكِ أي نشاط اجتماعي.

ولولا أنك تنفقين على نفسك وأولادك من عملك لطلب منكِ أن تتركيه، ولكن بدلًا من ذلك سيمنعك من التحدث مع زميلاتك.

إنه يعتقد أن أي حديث عنه وأي ضحكات هي بمثابة سخرية منه.

سيعمل جاهدًا على تدمير علاقاتك بمعارفك، لتكوني له وحده وسيتحكم في ملابسك وفي مستوى ضحكاتك – لو كان لكِ أن تضحكي من الأساس – وفي خروجك ودخولك حتى ولو كان ذلك لشراء البقالة من أموالك!

إنه حتى لا يتورع عن الإساءة لكِ من خلف ظهرك أمام اهله حتى يكرهونك ويبتعدون عنكِ.

إن الحياة مع النرجسي مضيعة للوقت والمال والجهد.. ومضيعة للحياة نفسها.

فانجي بنفسك.

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